Emotion is what really drives decisions in real estate. You are guiding buyers and sellers through one of the most significant and stressful decisions in their lives. However, when it comes to sales training, the skill of dealing with emotions (both your potential clients and yours) is rarely covered.
Instead we are taught to “convert” prospects by using logic to show our value. You present facts and use reason to try to convince them you are the best person for the job, yet emotion is what really drives the decision. This is what causes you to leave an appointment feeling like it’s a sure thing only to find out they listed with someone else. Or think the buying process was great for them, but you receive zero referrals and find out they listed with someone else a few years later. This happens when you don’t make them feel understood. Sure, you probably understood them. That’s not the problem. The problem is understanding doesn’t count for anything unless the other person believes you understand them. That builds trust. That’s the difference.
Anyone with the right data can show value. Value alone makes you a commodity. Building trust by making people feel understood is the first skill you will need to deal with emotions, the real reason people make decisions in real estate. It is also the fist step to the less stressful, less exhausting more abundant real estate business we talked about last week. So how do you do it? Keep tuning in and we’ll show you how. Keep elevating our industry.
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David Veldkamp
Owner | RE/MAX GR
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